It’s the fifth annual Beauty of a Woman Blogfest hosted by August McLaughlin. This year, I offer a meditation in pictures on something women have a big problem with, on our faces and sometimes other parts of our bodies.
Be sure to stop by the fest to read the posts and possibly win some prizes! But first, please continue reading mine. It’s short on words and long on pictures if you’re feeling verbally challenged.
Wrinkles are acceptable on many living creatures
ELEPHANTS – By Aaron Logan via Wikimedia Commons
SHAR PEIS – By Dave from New York via Wikimedia Commons
TORTOISES – By Adrian Pingstone Public domain via Wikimedia Commons
AGING MALE ACTORS – Michael Keaton in Spotlight.
Even some inanimate objects are fine when wrinkly
UNMADE BEDS – By maxronnersjo via Wikimedia Commons
One living thing is not culturally acceptable in a wrinkled state
OLDER WOMEN’S FACES – Via Wikimedia Commons
One part of our human anatomy absolutely must be wrinkled
This reinforces the old “beauty comes from within” adage. It turns out that these numerous wrinkles or folds are one of the human brain’s distinguishing characteristics. Mice, for example, have smooth brain surfaces. Now when I look in the mirror and notice the crow’s feet and crazed crackles on my cheeks I will think Hooray! Now my exterior matches my interior.
In case you are young and interested in preserving your smooth, elastic skin, here are some things you should avoid. Alas, in my youth, I slathered on the baby oil and sat in the noonday sun. And smoked.
Or I could just blame my mother.
Five years of beauty
This is the fifth year I have participated in August McLaughlin’s Beauty of a Woman Blogfest. I am honored to have the opportunity to write on a topic I might not otherwise consider, but which always causes me to reflect deeply. My posts from previous years:
I think wrinkles on a well lived face, regardless of gender, tell a terrific story. Why would anyone want to get rid of the landmarks that show laughter, smiles, kindness, heartache…. They tell the story of who you are!
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I absolutely agree. If only the culture could catch up with that idea, which we often pay lip service to but then idolize the 70-year-old actresses with retouched or surgically enhanced faces.
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I thoroughly enjoyed this post. Well done, Audrey!
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Thanks! It was fun to dream up all the wrinkly things and find the photos.
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Just watched Spotlight last night. It was pretty funny about the men versus women. We had an old editors, publishers, owners, but the one woman in the ‘spotlight’ was young and beautiful.
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ExACTly.
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Amazing, and thank you for sharing this!
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You’re welcome!
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After reading this, I welcome the wrinkles!! I’m not going to stop using moisturizer, but now I know they are as unique as me. 🙂
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I hear you. We can *welcome* the wrinkles without *pursuing* them!
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Your mom was right … “Twenty on the inside” forever! And life goes on. Great photography to support your post. Loved it!
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Glad you liked the photos. A wrinkle is worth 1,000 words…
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I so love this, Audrey! How crazy is it that as a culture, we’re so accepting of “certain” wrinkles, but not others? Precisely your point, I suspect. 🙂 And it’s so lovely.
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Thank you! I am just starting to peruse everyone else’s posts and loving them so far. So glad you’re doing this again!
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Truth! I’m always surprised at my face with each passing year. But, my mind also grows more tolerant of aging and I feel like society will soon catch up with us. We don’t need no stinkin’ surgery. 😉
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Your brain must be getting more wrinkles, too–indicating your increasing wisdom and tolerance!
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I have not aged well, many wrinkles and much sagging. Some twenty, maybe thirty, years ago I saw the signs. I have had decades to adjust and for the most part I have. Every once in a while, however, I am surprised by what looks back at me from a mirror. 😉
Loved this, Audrey! 🙂
Karen
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Glad you enjoyed it. That mirror image can surprise us–highlighting the disparity between our inner sense of self and what appears physically. I remember my mom remarking on that as she entered her late sixties. Said she still felt like she was twenty on the inside.
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“Twenty on the inside.” Exactly!
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You know, sometimes I think it’s REALLY unfair… wrinkles aren’t tolerated in an older woman’s face…? But a man can walk around with a face like a roadmap – and it’s “interesting”. HAHA…
I love your post and pics!! 🙂
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Thanks! I am wrinkling and proud. Maybe enough of us together we can change perceptions and expectations.
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Yesterday I retweeted a photo of Helen Mirren in a purple dress. She looks stunning in all her naturalness, and it’s refreshing to see. (Well, as much ‘naturalness’ as the effects of make-up and good lighting allow, of course.) Wrinkles are going to come; we might as well embrace them. The key is surrounding ourselves with wonderful people who love us on the inside and out. But yes, the double standard sucks.
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I love that picture of Helen Mirren, though I do think they makeup and lights are contributing something. She looks less wrinkly than I do, and she’s 20 years older than I am!
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Ha, yes, I noticed her neck and decolletage were particularly spot- and line-free. Still, she at least looks closer to what aging is supposed to look like.
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I’m always amazed at the different way aging males are talked about versus females, particularly if they’re actors / actresses / models.
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So true. I think they actually ADDED wrinkles to Michael Keaton for Spotlight.
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